Discussion: The Labeling of Mommy Porn

I have been sitting on this topic for hours. Earlier this morning, Mandi from Smexy Books shared this link with others. I was disgusted and I was upset. This post is going to be brief because I am still a little shocked and upset by all of it. First lets take a look at the video.

Did he really just say that this woman (and a well known author) should be at home knitting? Yes, she is a Grandmother. Yes, she is a mother. Does this mean she shouldn't write hot and sexy books for readers?

So I went online to find the definition of "Mommy Porn" or "Mummy Porn".

noun - Socially acceptable erotic fiction, written for a female readership. www.collinsdictionary.com

There are so many things that are offensive and wrong in these two things combined that I want to share with everyone.  These are my opinions, but I think I am not the only one who feels this way.

1. Since when is sex only appropriate for certain age groups?  Just because you are in your seventies and/or a Grandma doesn't mean your sex fantasies just disappear.

2.  What is so wrong with reading about romance?  When her family states that she writes porn that is a disgrace to the romance genre.  Yes there are smut books out there, but hey we were all brought into this world with that single act of sex. If you have kids, then GASP! you have had your fair share of some romance and hubba-hubba time.

3. Why the "Mommy" in the definition? I was reading romance when I was a teenager and way before I was joining in on the sex.  Why label it? I am sure there are men out there who have also read these types of books.

Another comment on Mandi's post drove it home. And yes it was from a male point of view.  I applaud this man for saying it because it is the truth.

The difference between mommy and daddy porn is the ratio of words vs pictures. The mommy porn has a photo on the cover and words inside. The daddy porn had a title on the cover, and no words inside.

Well, all I can say is this to the labels and the haters of sexual romance in books:

At least we are reading in a world where books have become lost in the digital world of movies and other forms of entertainment.

Discussion: Special Reads with Special Needs

Lately all the romance books I have been reading have had strong and sexy alpha males that lead dangerous lives.  While I find this to be exciting and definitely a popular trend, every once in awhile I like a down home sweet romance.  The ones with some humor on the side with a small town feel to it.  When an author brings in a character with a disability, it makes it an even better read for me usually. The characters seem to capture my interest and my heart before I even get halfway through the book.

I have found though that it can be a little difficult in finding these types of books. I did stumble across a post at Dear Author that helped me in finding a few. It seems that authors are either hesitant on writing their characters with a disability or they just aren't as popular as they should be.

I have reviewed two though that I can recommend if you are looking for a few reads with sexy and special as well. If anyone has any suggestions for me in this area of reading, please let me know in the comments. I would love to find more to add to my pile!

HEALING LUKE by Beth Cornelison

She Can't Escape Her Past...

Occupational therapist Abby Stanford is on vacation alone, haunted by sharp memories of her fiances betrayal, her self-confidence shattered. Romance is the last thing on Abby's mind - until she meets the brooding and enigmatic Luke...

He Won't Face His Future...

Scarred by a horrific accident, former heartthrob Luke Morgan is certain his best days are behind him. Spunky and attractive, Abby knows how to help him recover, but Luke is sure his powerful attraction to her will only serve as a harsh reminder to him of the man he used to be.

Abby is Luke's first glimmer of hope since the accident, but can she heal his heart before Luke breaks hers?


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THE WRITE MAN FOR HER by Christie Walker Bos

Work, work, work. That's how Jessica Anne Singer has dealt with the loneliness since her divorce. Except for her squawky cockatiel, Merlin, Jessica hasn't had a date in years, but all that's about to end. Jessica's best friend, Cath, has decided that Jessica needs to meet her dreamy online professor, Brant Wilson. 

Creative writing professor Brant Wilson is intrigued by one of his online students, Jessica Singer. She seems more worldly than most of his students and has a penchant for arguing with him over just about everything, which he finds oddly enjoyable. But when she asks to meet with him in person to discuss her grades he immediately refuses. He never meets with his students face-to-face. Never. Undeterred, Cath hatches a harebrained plan to find the reclusive professor. When the plan actually works, Jessica uncovers the real reason the professor doesn't meet with his students.

Stunned by her discovery, Jessica must decide if she'll listen to her head or her heart when it comes to determining if Professor Brant Wilson is the right man for her.

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6 Books/Series I Hope My Child Will Read

While I was sitting on my couch last night, my daughter proceeded to take out her home reading book from her backpack.  She came to sit next to me so we could both read our books together.  When she showed me the cover of the Amelia Bedelia book,  I was transported to my childhood days.

I remember sitting in my room on my comfy twin bed reading all about the adventures of Kristy from The Babysitter's Club.  I always wanted to know what scheme Jessica was going to need Elizabeth to help her out of in Sweet Valley Kids.  I remember going to the library once a week with my parents just to see if I could find a new Berenstain Bears book I haven't read.

As I sat there discussing the book after she turned the last page, I told her the books I enjoyed as I was growing up.  She has quite a collection in her bedroom of books she has purchased with her own money.  Her bookshelf is packed with Dr. Seuss and Junie B. Jones.  While I am glad she is a bookworm like me, there are certain books I hope she will purchase to experience the thrill that I did, but also so I can discuss with her the lessons that were taught in each one.

The following are the books I hope my child will read in her lifetime.  It is a wide range including humor, classics, and even poetry.  While most of these books are aimed at girls -- since I don't have any boys -- I hope people will realize thought that books are not gender specific necessarily. Boys can enjoy Little Women as well as Little Men.

The Little House by Laura Ingalls Wilder
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I loved reading about Laura and her family.  While I still watch Little House on the Prairie whenever I can, there is nothing like reading about the adventure.  Some things are better left to print than the TV Screen.

Kristy's Great Idea by Ann M. Martin
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What babysitter in the late 1980's or early 1990's didn't read this series? We always wondered if the adventures of the Babysitter's Club could really happen to us while we watch the little ones.  While they were more than likely never going to happen to us, it still opened up our imaginations.

Amelia Bedelia by Peggy Parish
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The housekeeper that every child wished we could have living with us. Forget Mary Poppins, I wanted Amelia Bedelia living in my home as a child.

Suprise! Suprise! by Francine Pascal
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The book that started the addiction! I gobbled Sweet Valley Kids -- and Sweet Valley High when I was older -- like candy.  I couldn't get enough of the sneaky Jessica and the goody Elizabeth.  I had to have every single one in the collection.

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott
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This was a book that my mom had bought for me when I was younger.  I admit, when she bought it for me I was dreading the idea of reading it. It was a classic and I thought it was going to be so boring.  As I read it though, I fell in love with Meg, Amy, Jo and Beth. I laughed and I cried while enjoying the story of the four women.  I finished it and I wanted more so I eventually read Little Men as well.

Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein
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While Cat and the Hat was the first book of rhyming/poetry I can remember reading, Where the Sidewalk Ends will always be my favorite.  There was just something about this book that captured me and children all over the world.